ChipperMonkey I see your point but I was raised to believe that a woman has a duty to make sure the man she loves is happy. I really just wanted to know how to get over the uncomfortable feeling and make sure he is happy. I already try hard to be a good woman and keep a clean house, food on the table, and make sure he has what he needs for work. I whole heartily believe that a good woman strives to make her man happy in every aspect in life. I am not trying to cut anyone down but a lazy woman puts her needs above her man's. A good woman realizes that God designed it to be God, her family, and then herself in order of importance and tries every day to follow God's plan for her life.