inny, I think you expressed yourself quite well. The only thing I want you to think about before sending it is this - are you prepared for whatever outcome will happen when she receives the email? Are you prepared that she may not want any contact whatsoever? Are you prepared to receive an angry email or phone call in return? Just look at all possibilities and come to terms with what may come of it. I don't want you to be taken by surprise by her reaction if it should be a negative one. Of course, she may not take it negatively....which would be ideal!

Good luck with everything and I hope you can keep your relationship going with your sister!

xoxox
sabby