Actually, feeling uncomfortable to show skin because you think you're responsible for provoking men going ape is just the same thing.

Aren't men rational vs. primitive, emotional women? Then why it's our fault if they can't respect us? They get as much education as women do. There's no excuse for catcalling or even to threatening stares. It's disrespectful, end of the story.

You should dress the way you want, show how much skin you want, not because your fiancé asks you, not because stupid people tell you. Your will must be respected.