That would be a good idea. When you take on a spouse, in-laws are part of the package. There's a lot you've got to discover about who this gal is. Take the time.

I've never heard that schizophrenics don't need love. You may have a lot to learn about yourself, yet, before you commit to a situation that may not be right for you. Take it slow. This gal is in a rush. That's not a goodd sign. You have to wonder: does she really want you, or she just wants her father out of the house?

Also, someone must have to help her take care of that child. Her father has probably been filling that role and the child may really need him.