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Originally Posted by Underground
Lol you hit the nail on the head with doing so well because he wanted to be the best. Just how some of us roll!!! With his self realization if like me he will not be able to see your point of view in the moment. I have to step back and think about what was said and then I can come to a point whether I can agree or disagree. Definitely not in the moment type of thing for us!! The empathy thing is a complete modification so don't expect miracles. Sounds like he has the right person though as I do my wife
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Luckily we don't disagree on much. I have had to learn to give him that time to analyze and think though, that was hard for me. I can go into borderline meltdown mode really quickly but he handles that soooo much better than other people. We are a really good match, it's kind of weird I think neither of us ever exepected to find someone we got along with so well. I think both of us having PDs helps a lot, oddly enough.