Hello CJ,

I want to point out that irregardless of what diagnosis your daughter might have, your family may want to consider coming together to stand as one in demanding that your daughter seek professional help.

As long as all of you let her get by with her disruptive behavior and anger, she will continue to do it.

Perhaps all of you could meet and, standing as one, confront her and demand she gets help. Also, please stay in your grandchildren's lives and let them know they are loved. It sounds like you have been the most stable person in their lives and that is so important.

I wish you the very best,

January