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Originally Posted by CosmicRose
I understand your situation, however you keep saying you're being respectful to her and you actually aren't. You're not respecting her views at all, yet you say you do. She has valid concerns, whether you're ready to hear that or not. She's doing what any rational minded mother would do and you're getting angry at her for that. If I were you, I would stop the webcamming and I would take her advice and get another job. The taxes that you'll have to pay for being self employed are a lot, in the thousands. And you cant hide from the IRS so the tax money will chip away big time at any amount you save. Not to mention there is always the chance of being recognized once you stop webcamming, whether its at a job or just at the store. Its not worth it. You really need to think about this. Not only that, but once your pictures or videos are on the internet its very difficult to get them completely erased forever. There are so many stories of women with respectful jobs being fired because someone recognized them at work from years ago in porn, whether its their coworker or a customer. And you also don't get any benefits from that job. I wouldn't want my daughter doing that under my roof either and I would be concerned.
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I understand what you are saying here and I even understand on the suface I might appear as though I am being disrespecful but I actually am not my mother and I have spoken on this lightly out of "respect" for each other and she is not quite so opinionated on this as she was before. I am looking for other work other then this.
I am sorry if its disagreed upon here but as an adult women I think I have a right to view the world as an adult and if I wish to be active in those views I feel i should be able to. Just cause I don't have the same opinions on morals or life as my mother does not mean such views should be forced on someone.
I mean to me that is no differnent then a Christian mother telling her teenager "the only safe sex is no sex at all" but I happen to be a very open minded sex postive femnist type of person and yes in a perfect world I would not be doing this out of my mom's house. But I can not do it as of right now.
but when my mom picks up my paychecks for me and hands them to be when i get them in the mail. I think that a clear sign she is not as perverted by it as she wants to make her self out to be.
and actually not that I am trying to be rude here but the taxes web cam girls pay is not really all that much. You are not considered owning your own business doing this kind of work.
but I do understand you view point on this.
and apologize if people took offence