There's ways to enhance femininity without looking provocative. Maybe baggy clothes and t-shirts denote less sense of self confidence?

Where are these cat calls coming from?

Allow me to add, leaving a lot to the imagination, certainly can go a long, long way. I reside where machismo is predominant. I dress nicely more oft than not. I don't attract the wrong kind of attention, albeit there is attention, but more gentlemanly than some construction site attention...