You really don't understand how taxes and the IRS work, do you?

Is your employer taking out social security? If not, you're an independent contractor and WILL have to pay a hefty portion of your salary to the IRS. (I seriously doubt that you're technically an employee of these web cam people.)

Go watch "life after porn". It's a good documentary. After your image is out there, you WILL be recognized. People will walk up to you, even if you have your kids with you and they will comment. That is, you can't hide, there is no leaving that life behind.