but if you are choosing to work in the sex industry by choice rather then be forced to do it....I don't see a reason to feel ashamed of that.

why should something as common as sex be looked at in a shameful way? that is what I disagree with and if I want to live that way I feel like it my god given right as women to live that, I have done fetish photography have lived in the BDSM life style and been paid many times to do things of this nature and if you as an indvidual are ok with living that way its perfectly ok.

and chipper actuall you are an employee of the web caming sites you have fill out all the government forms that they issue for you and you have to agree to do sales tax and yes I am younger and have not delt with doing taxes too many times in my life. but its not much more different then when you work any other service job.
cause thats what web camming is considered to be its considered fetish service work.

But it is not porn! at least not according to what the legal indsutry considers to be so. I am not trying to come on here and argue with you guys I swear.

the truth of the matter is I have done research on this I have talked with other girls in the industry.

and for the most part what people see of you most of the time is in "general chat" and by law you required to be fully clothed until some requests to speak to you privately and on many sites you can even block out certain computer IPs, countries zip codes, and states.

no one is forced to work doing this kind of thing and everything about this kind of work is under your control just like you private sex life.

in fact I didn't even really get into doing this for money I did cause I have a fetish for being watched and I wanted a healthy outlet for it.
so I did research and I tried it out.

and it makes me feel good! I feel pretty and I can talk openly with other people about sexual topics I myself or other people do not get the opertunity to.

simply due to fear of society judgements and streotypes put on by other people.

I have literally been paid by other people not do anyhthing myself but dance around and be happy this is really sexual therapy to a degree for some people much like this site is.

and if anyone does something you don't like or feel comfertable with you block them or if its even more sevier you report them.

AGAIN if you really want to think of me how you want thats on you all I know all people have different views on sex and even people who work in the sex industry or alternative lifestyles. And I am not trying to be insulting or rude. But I have to say in my own judgement and opinion knowing fully that is all it is, is just me making ajudgement call on what I see here.

but I feel a lot of the emtions and frustration toward me in this thread is not due to I am doing anything wrong, its different view points oppousing what I am doing.

I understand that...I understand not all people have the same view points on life that I do. And I understand that is probably why me and my mother booted heads on this topic when it first came up.

but I have a right to my own opinions and judgements in this world as women, and as an adult women. Know I don't have a ton of life experince, and I have made mistakes in my life. But I don't see what I am doing as far as this as something bad in my life.

is it something I can brig up to anyone, anywhere HELL no! cause I know that many people will not like it and they will take offense to it.

I guess I thought I would get a response here in the forums that would be similar to when I did a DBT support group where "judgements" would put aside, to be kind and helpful to all that speak of their issues or concerns but I was wrong on that account and apparently some people took offensive to what i am doing which was not my goal.

but I have done research on this I have asked questions about this kind of work and I going into it with that approach.
but as of recently I don't even do this as full time work I do it on the side when I have the time.

and I am looking for other work as well.

Sorry if my being a sex positive feminist type is offensive this is just who I am as person, and I like WHO I AM. if other people take issue with that, in my opinion that on them not on me.

but I do not say that to start a conflict or argument just saying so as a general statement.

but again again again I just want to say if anyone here has taken what i have said in offence I sincerely apologize and would like to just agree to disagree in this thread from here on out since it seems the best most mature way to deal with this with out creating more issue with anyone else.