Freewill, what a tough situation to be in!

I love (as in, I like the way we work together) my t, and would love for her to work with my dd, but I am resisting the thought, because I don't want t's loyalties to be divided...

Some time ago, I gave up my t so that she could continue seeing my other dd. Long story. Took me trying out a dozen therapists til I found the one I am with now. A journey of discovery; discovering how differently we 'click' with different people...

If there is any way you can get a referral from your t....or ask if she/he can see your son and continue seeing you, ask her if she'd be able to keep it separate. I once worked with a t who said she could keep my therapy and my dd's therapy separate and for a few years it did work.

Best of luck to you!