This is going to sound ironic. For, as someone with intense social anxiety I am happiest when surrounded by people.

Yes, I must explain.

1. When I am with someone I closely know I feel protected. The ocassion must include going to events and social situations together. I couldn't possibly go someplace by myself even if it was to meet a friend.
2. I thrive in social situations of which I have control over it. ie. hosting a dinner party