I don't feel like he is cheating. I think this is normal in any relationship.
When I fall in love, I fall in love very deeply, and whilst I'm in honeymoon period, I am not attracted to anyone other than the one I love. But when I settle down with them, I recognise beauty in other people as well as the one I love, yet I have never cheated on anyone.
I used to hate my boyfriends watch porn and would get really upset and feel like they had cheated on me, and have split up with someone because of it. Then as time went by and began to realise many couples are okay with porn, I tried to relax more about it with other boyfriends, and when I relaxed about it, I found that they didn't have as much as a need to watch it as when I've protested firmly against it. In fact, in my latest relationship, it was me suggesting we watch some to spice it up a bit, and it was him that didn't want to leaving me a bit disappointed.
Real cheating is when someone falls in love or has an affair with someone else, when they prefer to spend more time with the other person in their life, when they begin to have feelings for them.
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