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Old Nov 06, 2015, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted by DBTDiva View Post
Sometimes people feel better knowing that the person is a trained professional who can't betray your confidence. I sort of look at it like you're paying them to listen so you want them to their job! I've always felt like it's the one place it's safe to spill everything, so I'm completely the opposite from you. That's got to be horrible, feeling like sharing your thoughts and feelings is such an extreme violation. Have you considered what is the worst possible scenario if you open up? Assuming you're not talking to them about killing yourself or someone else, what is the worst possible outcome that might follow opening up more?
I think it is not really about the outcome.... All I know is how I feel at that particular moment and I feel violated. It just goes against my very nature to open up to people like that. I don't think I fear betrayal, it simply doesn't work for me. It's like you'd force a cat to bark... it won't bark because it is a cat, all it can do is meowing.
(I don't know if I make any sense at all)
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