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Old Nov 06, 2015, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Cats4 View Post
No, I'm not going to allow any of that - especially to my son, but not going to put up with it myself either. I "broke" up with him yesterday. He's handling it not well, he texted me late last night asking if his son could call and say Goodnight. Which he hasn't asked that in months and months. I told him, "Tell him goodnight, but phone calls aren't a good idea". Then I got a text this morning saying "Can I call you sweetheart?" I told him No. He's apologizing, and everything else.

This is hard for me... but, I know I need to do it.
Stay strong!!!! It sucks to have to do something that you don't really want to do but you know is the right thing. He will try different things to get you to budge, like using his son to manipulate you, but you can stand strong no matter what he does.
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