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Old Nov 06, 2015, 01:34 PM
Mygrandjourney Mygrandjourney is offline
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Originally Posted by rcat View Post
Is it possible to be addicted to being a bully or putting people down?

My mother was an incredible bully, constantly putting certain (not all) people down. I don't think she would fit the mold of a narcissist because they believe they are better than everyone already. Rather, she had a need to be better. Consequently she would put people down - usually targeting those already weak in self esteem - to make her feel better for her own inadequacies. I am convinced she was addicted to doing this; that it gave her some sort of high to make herself feel better at the cost of others. I'm certain she enjoyed this.

Anyone else's thoughts?
IT might look like an addiction, but it's probably something else. You refer to her in the past tense; is she still with us?
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