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Hello all. I will try to keep this as short as possible. My husband and I are both 27. We have been married for almost 2 years and have been together since we were 15. The last few months have been full of stress. My father died after a long battle with cancer and I was hospitalized with an infection.
All of the financial responsibility has fallen on my husband. I am trying to get back to work as I am finally feeling better. Everything seemed fine until yesterday when my husband seemed to be in a bad mood. I asked him if he was ok and he totally went OFF! He told me he wanted freedom. He said he wanted us to do more...and he wanted to go out with the guys more. He then said that he felt like he got married too soon and he had thoughts of cheating! I was shocked. Last night he told me he didn't know what he wanted.
Fast forward to this mourning and he was totally different. He said he wanted to try and work on our marriage but I needed to be more self-sufficient. He said he loves me and he can't tell the future but he'll "try". I am left hurt and bewildered and he is going on like nothing happened. I don't know what I should do or how to take it. I am glad he told me but I just don't see how he can flip and then flip back. I thought maybe he's overwhelmed but I don't know...
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