That sounds messed up of your counselor to determine weather or not your issues are "gone". I would find a new tdoc because it sounds like you can really use some guidance right now. And from personal experience, if he was abusive then, then it's bound to happen again. Putting blame back on you is typical of an abuser. I was in a n abusive relationship where he would talk to me like that all the time. The relationship ended with me in a neck brace for 2 wks and him in jail for attempted murder. Trust me, it may be better for now but he won't change over night. I would suggest counseling for you guys but honestly I don't think you should be with a man that treats you like this. Someone will get hurt here! Please be careful and know that you deserve much better.

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