I'm sorry you suffer from depression. It does not seem appropriate for your sister to have this much control over your life. Just one question though: why are you listening to your sister when she says not to talk to family? She is not the boss of your life and you should be able to do what you want. If you trust someone enough, tell someone about her and maybe if they don't live in the same household move in with them if they are comfortable with it? My siblings make fun of me all the time because of my interest in mental illness and ADHD. I just ignore them as much as I can. And why doesn't your sister want someone to hear you? That doesn't seem right. Have you ever asked her why she acts this way to you or why she doesn't want other people to talk to you? Maybe you can figure out her problem and if it is something bad, suggest her to go seek help of some kind. Anyways, keep us updated. I wouldn't listen to her. If she gets mad at you, I would tell someone about it. And why are you doing the carpentry work? Can't she pay someone else to do it? If it is risking your health, refuse to do so. Say your doctor said you can't get cut or scrapped and if she says too bad, I would not do it anyways. This will probably hurt your and her relationship but it isn't healthy right now and you need to feel safe doing what you want. Hope this helps.

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