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meander said:
Maybe try

"I like having my space, so when you call all the time, sometimes I feel like I'm being pestered, and I feel that you don't respect my boundaries. Maybe we could set a time to have coffee and talk then, and you can save up all your good stories for that time, because altho I like talking to you, I value my alone time too."

Most likely, as soon as she realises what's going on, she'll back off... the trick is not getting her offended.


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Meander's words sound good to me. If she becomes offended, does it matter?