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Cheri said:
Sorry you had a difficult session, Canders.

I agree with you; it does seem kind of nuts to try to contract someone out of negative self-talk, withholding emotions, etc., when those are things we usually have to learn how to handle differently, not just change on demand. If it were that easy, why would we need therapists???

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Thank you! (((((((((((Cheri))))))))))))))

I guess my T is new and all (he just graduated in April) but I honestly think he's missed the boat this time. Good intentions, BAD way to go about it.

Sad, since I have such a nice connection with him most of the time.

Right now I just feel exceedingly crappy.