Okay, in order:
I'm really trying to hold out on unnecessary doctors visits because I always end up paying for lab work or something in addition to weekly insurance payment and copay and its stupid. Husband will be home more soon he's been working 15 hour days plus school two nights a week for the last month. Hopefully after this week he'll go back to a normal schedule. And no, no friends.

Thanks for being able to relate to this. I have been telling my family for a few weeks that it was getting out of hand they just didn't believe me. Today I'm just tired, I came here intending to write a nice well thought reply, but its just not coming.