first .. you are very young ... and as you age your opinion will change so be careful in your feelings and actions ... hate is such a powerful and negative word ... it is something you do not need in your life ... I was lead to discover that I was emotionly "deprived" as a child. ... and I have a very hard time feeling connected with people today because of it .. but I do not blame my parents ... they were just doing what they were taught by there parents .. that is why it takes so long to change things we are creatures of habit ... you will find you have more to be thankful for than to be angry about ... be understanding none of us are perfect ... you are 22 this is your life now ... live it in a positive way ... reguardless of your past the future is yours to decide ... set your goals and work to reach them ... be thankful of what good you did get from them ... do not dwell on what might have been and instead reach out for what can be ...peace my friend ...