Not having read any of the responses, I don't know if anyone has already said the same thing, but here goes...

I'm not sure that they think they "deserve" younger spouses... I think that they just haven't grown up! LOL They probably don't see themselves for as old as they are. It's the same as the "car thing". You see older men, mine included, with racey sport cars. Mine is learning how to surf... at age 68???? C'mon now! He looks at the young girls all the time, too. But let's face it, your average 68 yr old woman isn't much to look at either, is she? LOL Granted, there are a few out there, but then, they're not "average."

My neighbor surprised me the other day after he saw Tanya Tucker in concert. She's no spring chicken and she's not "average" either! He said "She's just a little bit more than alright!" The man is in his early 60's. I think he's healthy! LOL

Anyway... I think it all boils down to the man's state of mind.