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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey
It's natural to miss someone from your past, even if the person was bad for you, destructive, abusive, etc. Missing someone doesn't make you weak, or a disappointment. It only makes you human. Please be kind to yourself. It takes time to get over someone you cared about.
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Thanks so much. I really appreciate this. I try to tell myself that but it's hard sometimes. But you're right. We're all human and we feel things deeply.
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Originally Posted by rcat
I s she medicated? Seeing a psychologist? Seeing therapy? Seeking psych support services?
If she won't take care of herself she won't take care of your relationship.
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I totally agree with you and thanks for telling me this. The last I spoke to her, she was seeing a psychiatrist but I think it was only when she got diagnosed with BPD, she wasn't medicated, and she was trying to figure out how to live with her BPD on her own. So...she hasn't been working on herself when I last spoke to her. But you're right. The way she was, and probably still is, isn't the best version of herself and I don't need that. I don't want that.
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Originally Posted by Bill3
When do you think of her?
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Good question. It's mostly at random times, but mostly as of late. I've been working on myself a lot by going to therapy and working through past issues, and I've been wondering if she's been doing the same.