i wrote mine a letter. That was easier to get out some of the initial tough stuff.. and we went from there. i may be weird but i find talking about the relationship with T in session almost as helpful or not more helpful than anything else we talk about. Right now it's very important to me that he get to know me, really know me. i don't know why and so i find that those sessions leave me feeling buoyed up somehow.

i hope you find a way to bring it up... maybe something like.. "i feel kind of silly/embarrassed/whatever about this, but i need to talk a bit about how you and i relate to each other and this whole process..."

i don't know. good luck though.

much love and peace