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Originally Posted by ladiesman11
I dont know how even to start this thread but i will give a try since im completely hopeless having tried different things before.. Im facing the biggest problem that i have faced before despite looking silly as many people can think and i understand that.. what happens is : im the worst kisser on the planet despite being a well looking guy with a good self steem.. everything started when i was 17 having my first kiss.. at that time i thought that kissing on the lips had a different motion than kissing on the cheek .. i remember the girl that i was kissing saying `` kiss in a normal way``.. since then i had more opportunities being lost because of that.. i reached a stage where i lost my confidence in such a way that when i start kissing a girl i rush myself in a inconscious way and i end up messing up again and again .. i lost the count how many times i have been in a nightclub , meeting some pretty girls and seeing them giving me an excuse afterwards and leaving me alone cause my kissing style.. i cant understand this pain anymore.. i cant live this life anymore being so pretty and well looking and losing all opportunities i lost in the past.. i cant live this life anymore having so much potential and living in this ****** scenario that im lviing for so long.. iim feeling trapped , broken and without any way out.. it seems like im in a nightmare that i will never wake up.. and even that i still can bang some chickes sometimes being the worst kisser on planet.. i know that people can say that everybody kisses in a different way but im so bad that makes girls leave me in this way.. any suggestion? i want ``solve `` this problem as soon as possible.. i cant stand the pain being so heartbroken for so long.. i just want make clear this has become a serious problem for me since i cant mantain a relationship with any girl...
thanks very much
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Wow. Now I remember why I have this forum blocked. I don't know if you are still here but... IMO your problem is only indirectly related to kissing. As someone said, unless your kisses draw blood you're probably not doing it that badly. And yes, be careful with the tongue. I was in a club one night and a stranger walked up and kissed me. She put her tongue so far in my mouth I felt like I was being attacked by the creature in Alien

Kissing should never feel like an assault. An infiltration maybe but not like unleashing a full frontal attack. Go slow. Let it happen. Explore. Don't forget your hands. Touch her face... her neck... slide your fingers through her hair. Be careful with your teeth... she isn't a hamburger. And relax