So I just got married this past week, and I am the happiest girl alive! I just have something I need advice on how to properly handle a certain subject that my husband and I are very different on. From the beginning of our relationship my husband has been very affectionate towards me, there is not one doubt in my mind that he loves me. I had made the decision at a very young age to stay a virgin until I got married. I half did that. My now husband is the only man I have ever done it with. I had explained this to him right away and he respected my wishes. About two weeks into dating he started telling me that he loved me, about a month in a half later I told him I loved him as well. I knew from that point on that I wanted to marry him. I gave "it" to him. We are now married, so in love, and extremely happy. Except for one thing... how often we do it. From the beginning he's been the same way, He'll only do it every 7-10 days. When we got together he was not a virgin, he had already been engaged before and she cheated on him while he was in the military, so my drive is much stronger than his. We've discussed it before and he does the best he can his drive just isn't there. He loves to hold me, and cuddle, and give me kisses, but sex is almost never there and I'm getting really frustrated... Do any of you have advice?