Once a week is certainly not the same as "never there"...

I don't have any advice except to say that you may want to see things for how they are instead of how they feel, perception plays a HUGE role in our happiness.

So while it feels like the sex is never there, it is in fact there once a week.

You may feel that's bad, but just take a read around and see how many people are actually sexually starved. You'll start feeling really lucky when you read their posts.....

Idk, you say you've spoken to him and he's trying, I'm not sure what there is to do beyond that because I've been blessed with a bf who's sexual appetite matches mine.