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Originally Posted by Cats4
I think part of what is bothering me is, great - now that I finally broke up with him, he's going to quit drinking and he's going to magically turn back into the guy he was when I first met him. Or maybe this is what he wants me to think.
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Bingo! He's not going to stay sober out of spite, he just wants to make you doubt yourself. I still encourage you to go to Al Anon. You'll be surprised how much of what you think, feel, and fear is very common to partners of alcoholics/addicts.