Mine does this too. I sometimes feel like I'm trying to understand his view rather than him mine. It makes me doubt myself. He continues to compare my abusive marriage to sexual infidelity and I want to whack him sometimes. Other times I expend way too much time and energy trying to figure out the similarities...
It also bugs the crap out of me that wherever I bring up previous T he teases me about my ET. Yeah, I know, joke is older than god, can we talk about what happened that reminded me of her, pretty please. I am trying to get over relationship dysfunction or whatever here.
I should really talk to him about this stuff...

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