Yes and no. I do trust her though. I guess at this point, the only thing I don't trust is this one narrow little area. And really, if it weren't for my spells, how often would it come up?
No, she wasn't having sex with him after we started dating, or even months before hand. They had well and truly broken up. She was still friends with him and saw him, but no cheating. She did pretend that they were two different people though, which is how she thought of it as well. Better as friends then boyfriend/girlfriend.

No, and I asked about that as well when we were dating. She just blamed their fights on sex, but that certainly wasn't all they fought about since they were political opposites. She thought of herself as a failure and blamed her anxieties about pregnancy for it.

. I think there's a lot to that. It's not the sex, it's that there is a part of her that I missed. I got the same sort of twinges when her mother showed me yearbook photos.