wow you guys are incredible. I am touched by your love for the mother and the efforts to care for yourselves at the same time. KTP and Kimmy, you seem so strong and clear on your decisions. I am glad for you that you are feeling peace with it. Once in a while I think i miss my mother but what I miss is the idea of a mother because I really never had one. Could not do a relationship with her as it would be unhealthy. Most people I know think the parents are dead. let it be. Good job ladies!