Honestly if this guy was as interested in you as you say he is, he'd pursue you and nothing would stop him and he certainly wouldn't tell people you are stalking him. That's not what men who have feelings for a woman would do.

He likes to be admired by many women and it strokes his ego. He enjoys so many women being after him. Sounds like a very unhealthy player and he doesn't even attempt to hide it. I wouldn't even blame him here as he clearly shows his true colors. He isn't lying. People always reveal themselves. If he says he doesn't want relationship, why try to change him? Why not look for one who wants commitment?

You keep asking yourself and us why he does what he does but is it even important? We might never know why people do what they do.

I would focus on you and why do you want to pursue a man who clearly isn't interested in monogamous relationship or interested enough in you. I would really look into it. There are other available loving men out there. Why this guy? Something to explore

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