I've gone into a transference with T where I'm back at very early age of two or three. She first says how this is good and a big step to let it be there while we deal with the rejections/neglect I had in my past. She is so accepting and knowing about this scary stuff for me.
BUT she can't let a session go by that she doesn't remind me of how it's important to find people in my social circle to be friends with and love. I feel totally jerked around by this. It makes T out to be a liar to encourage my little child transference, then advise me to do like a grown-up and find my best friend in church, or somewhere else, to depend on.