James - were you asking me if it's right to not talk to your friend anymore n just let her go? If so my answer to that is - only you can decide that, it comes down to what makes you happy n what n who you want in your life n what n who u don't- you are in control, never give anyone else the reins of control over your happiness! However, with that said - keep in mind you can't control her either - so if she decides she does not want to b your friend for whatever reason, you should accept that n move on..