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Old Nov 10, 2015, 02:22 PM
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I'm sorry you're in this situation. I'd be very concerned if my partner made such a serious accusation, and after talking it out then turned around and accused me of the same thing again, let alone asked me to take a drug test. It sounds like he really has a hang-up about people close to him lying about drug use. It sounds like he would really benefit from the therapy.

As for your decision, I sure can't tell you what to do, but if I went from being crazy about someone to feeling lost and disappointed about them, I would end the relationship. You say you're constantly battling thoughts over whether you should stay and work through it or go. It sounds to me like you've bent over backward to work through it, and it hasn't worked. That would be a huge red flag for me.
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