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Old Nov 10, 2015, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted by hannabee View Post
IDK, there is an old saying "the best offense is a defense" Is there any possibility that he is the one with the drug problem? What kind of drug does he think you are abusing? Seems like there is much to work out if this relationship is going to continue. Maybe the help of a counselor? Good luck and big hug!
I was thinking this too. I know I've seen many times before that often someone cheating will project and accuse their partner of cheating. It could be a case that he's fixated on that to try to hide that he's using drugs. He has to learn how to trust the person he's with, it sounds like it's really his issue so it's something he will have to work on.
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