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Originally Posted by DBTDiva
I was thinking this too. I know I've seen many times before that often someone cheating will project and accuse their partner of cheating. It could be a case that he's fixated on that to try to hide that he's using drugs. He has to learn how to trust the person he's with, it sounds like it's really his issue so it's something he will have to work on.
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yes that's what we have boiled it down to...its his issue not mine. We live together so its more difficult and complicated BUT its also more of a reason to believe that I am not battling any drug addictions!! I know he isn't either because I pay very close attention to detail and not much gets past me, whereas he is more carefree and doesn't seem to pay much attention to detail.
I love him when he acknowledges that I am right, agrees to work on it and shows a clear understanding of what I am speaking and reciprocates. Otherwise, I am contemplating how to bring things to a closure. its really hard...