I think that i became so paranoid that even if a girl is having a pleasure its hard for me to believe that she is not lying.. i reached a stage that nowadays if i go out and start kissing a girl and eventually bring her home i think its because im so well looking rather than because of the way i kiss.. let me ask you something just to make sure.. when im kissing a girl on the lips.. is the same motion of kissing on the cheek? obviously that i know that is so much more softly and gently but is it a ``kiss`` as well? im asking this cause i think that maybe im doing something wrong when kissing on the lips.. i started thinking that when kissing on the lips i had to suck or grab her lips rather than kissing.. am i wrong? thanks