dustin........the road to finding "who we are" is a long one.....i'm not sure that the journey ever ends but as i read your post...i smiled........because whether you realize it or not dustin.......you are walking down life's road.....you are discovering yourself.......you are finding you........and what i know in my heart is that you will be a success dustin because you don't give upi.....you will have all that you wish for someday but what you should know is that you already have alot of worth in this world.....you are respected for being the good man that you are and you are loved just for being you and when the day comes that you find your partner in life..she will be one very lucky lady.....