I can see why you feel frustrated - it sounds like a really annoying situation. You both have really hectic schedules. Based on my own personal dating experience, I no longer chase people. If they aren't willing to meet me half way, if they don't want to see me as much as I want to see them, then we are probably not a good match.

If you want to give it another try, I would invite her to your place as she asked- maybe that is what you could do two days from now?