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Originally Posted by FunnyMadison
What you wrote makes sense.
I do think he respects in a weird way because he flirted like mad, seeked physical contact but never tried to sleep with me.
That other girl is cute and dumb. They have very little in common but she sure isn't threatening.
I do think he has trouble letting me go as an option. Every time a guy showed interest in me he told him to forget it, that I was stalking him.
When I came back from holidays he told me that a lot had happened but he refused to say what. Now I know what.
He thought I wouldn't come back. Lol. Yeah I guess he needed an excuse for running to her the minute I left. In August he thought I was staying at a festival until... when? In March he thought I wouldn't come back from visiting my parents.
Amazing how he finds excuses for being interested in another girl
He seems to have dropped the other girls. Why doesn't he keep them as options?
Maybe he really believes that i am too challenging. In say that I expresd my emotiins but i think i am understanding and yolerant.
When someone is sick or hurt themselves he is horrified and disappears
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If he's so hell bent on wanting to hold you on you should be giving him a quick ultimatum by your actions not by your words. If really wants to he will jump for you immediately, he picked her for her looks and quick fast emotions with a pretty girl. It's probably an ego thing. He just might not be mature enough and or might be mature enough but isn't willing to make commitment at the moment for whatever reason and if he isn't for anything that's difficult for him no need to think twice about him and he should realize that he chose to not go to you and hold on to you like he's holding onto too many groceries and and can't drop one to make his load easier to handle.
It's better for him to decide from your actions than you decide for his actions. It's a much healthier route.
My point still stands even if he sees your caring side and understands you on that level you have to work for what you want the way that's best for you and him, but that would mean just letting him go if you have to. Which I would prefer doing if I was in your shoes.