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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
I don't think it's completely unreasonable if he says this is what he likes. Again still though if it makes you uncomfortable just the same, then he should respect your desire not to do so, but.. he won't know to respect you in that or back down unless you state your reservations on this.  |
I agree with this too. It could be your friends, siblings, kids... Sometimes people think we "hide" too much in clothes for no reason and they are just suggesting we'd look nice if we dressed in a different way. You don't need to go through a complete makeover, but isn't him only suggesting that you should try other things that might look good on you, trying to cheer you up by making you dress nice clothes? And aren't you refraining from trying new clothes that may look fantastic on you just because you have a preconceived idea that you shouldn't attract other people's (men) stares?
Again, none of what you stated is your responsability. Feeling pressured by your husband to wear X clothes is the same as feeling pressured by moral rules not to. What do you want?