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Old Nov 11, 2015, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted by SkyscraperMeow View Post
What's the point of posting at all if you don't want feedback as to how to make your situation better?
I just gave my take on it. I disagree with you on your approach and tone even where at times I don't disagree with some of the underlying idea, but certainly your have the right to do it differently than the way I choose. One might wonder what is the point to coming onto a site and ranting about how much everyone on it is stupid and whiny and wrong in how they do their lives. I think sometimes some people just need some space to be and tell their situation at the time - I don't think that everyone is looking to be told in a bludgeony manner how wrong they are - I think some people have been told their entire lives how much they suck and perhaps just need to be able to be without being told it for a while. I think most people do realize that some expectations about therapy and therapists may be off the chart but they just want to express the feelings of sadness, or loss, or frustration or whatever about therapy without being criticized.

I post all the time and I NEVER want people to tell me what they think I should do. I don't care what they think I should do. I might want to hear how they have handled similar situations, but being told what to do or what is wrong with me by strangers on the internet is of absolutely no interest to me.
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Last edited by stopdog; Nov 11, 2015 at 11:14 AM.
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