Umm, I would be so like, "you can let your own damn dog out, do I look like a dog sitter to you? Am I on poop patrol? No honey, that all on you. Don't be calling on me like I'm your personal assistant or something. Handle your own dirty laundry."

You know sweety, there are users, abusers, and very few that you can call friends. He's not your daddy. Tom sounds like a user, like his true colors come flying through. Dump him girlfriend. You deserve better than that. You need more respect of yourself to take that crap from nobody others. You need to be working on you babe. Let's see if he comes crawling. That's what his girlfriend suppose to do. He can't have it both ways. Do you honey.

A true friend wouldn't be using you as a door mat. He needs to grow up, be a man, and take care of his own responsibilities. You just worry about you.

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