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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey
The time for the ultimatum is now.
Tell him he must seek help for his paranoia or get out. It's his problem, not yours.
And don't give in by taking the damn drug test. It'll just lead to more absurd requests in the future. Put your foot down now.
If he doesn't trust you, the relationship has no hope and was over a long time ago.
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Thank you, I appreciate the feedback... that's how I am feeling. I am completely against taking any drug tests to prove that I'm not on anything, because to me, his doubt or paranoia in something like this when he has been given absolutely no reasons to feel this way just feels wrong to me. It feels like it symbolizes our relationship as a whole. I feel like my companion/lover should support me, believe in me, understand and know me especially after 2 years and living together for a year...him not having any reason to feel this way and making such an accusation just throws me over the edge and literally breaks my heart and confuses the heck out of me. When there has been nothing at all and I mean NOTHING for him to think this way, something just feels very wrong... like im missing something... maybe a bigger picture or a red flag or a sign that someone is trying to get me to see about this relationship.