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Old Nov 11, 2015, 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted by popuri88 View Post
I never bought that idea that life comes with guarantees or that everyone is made to be happy, happiness is the ultimate goal and its variables.

But I too have a weird family history and the idea of ending like a bitter hermit haunts me from times to times. Whenever I'm crushed by it I like looking at the sea or space and realizing how tiny I am compared to everything else.
Exactly this thought is in my head so frequently!
I guess it is possible to sit through it and realize it is only a fear, not a guarantee either. I imagine my bitter hermit relatives never said to anyone "I am looking for ways to make friends. I don't want to be a lonely bitter hermit"