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Originally Posted by d.o.a.
I only just realised that the fact that we're none of us guaranteed anyone that would love us scares me a great deal.. There's no guarantees I won't live my life alone  It just seems really sad to me that I'd die alone.. I only have one friend left after having been ill for a few years.. What if she decides to leave as well and I never make new ones! It's just really.. SCARY.. |
I struggle with this too... I think its a normal part of life to feel concern over this. there isn't anything we can do about how the cards are dealt but try and feel secure with yourself and be as content with who you are, doing the things that make you feel happy and at ease...you'll attract genuine people who will be there and love you always when you are putting it out there that you are positive and love yourself...it is a constant battle... just know as much as you would love someone until the end of their time, there is some one out there who will love you until the end of yours, try not to lose faith the it exists and don't give up on happiness... you are not by yourself, you are with yourself and coming to terms with this reality will bring you self reassurance and happiness.
I have to tell myself sometimes not to worry so much about the future and what may or may not happen because as you know anything can happen and therefore it is pointless to worry ourselves. Try to be in the present moment as much as you can.
try listening to Eckhart Tolle some time... he really puts it into perspective.
here are some of his helpful reminders:
Eckhart Tolle TV | Archive