Hi there,

Not sure what the issues with your dad are - but he wants to go to a hotel with you??? Is this safe?

I've had many surgeries and I've woken up in different ways depending on how long I was under and what type of surgery I had. I woke up crying once from pain but then they gave me medicine. I usually wake up shivering cold which is normal. One hospital had this big tube under my sheet that blew warm air in - ahhhhhh how nice was that!

Try not to worry! Oh, and I've never said anything! Usually too groggy to speak initially anyway.

Hope it works out okay. I'll send some healing thoughts your way.

Tranquility